Be gentle, but be relentless You’ll know when from her actions Spread her outer lips gently, and slip your tongue into her Kiss your way downward, slowly, enjoying all of her Lap up her juices, and swish your tongue inside, enjoy the smoothness and taste of her
These are the basics of cunnilingus
Depending on the extent of your relationship, she might need to reach a comfort level Reach down, and gently touch her, and enjoy her wetness There can be much more Trace the letters of the alphabet there Whisper to her, and touch her, gently massaging her Encourage her to tell you what she wants Get oh, so close to her and gently blow into her
When she is ready, slip your index finger into her, your palm facing upward, gently, massaging her There cannot be any doubt in her mind that you wish to pleasure her this way Tell her how you desire her, want to pleasure her, to drink her, to kiss her deeply there; whisper all this to her Suck on her inner lips, kissing them, pulling them gently Come back up and drink of her some more Pleasing her just the way she desires will truly enhance the experience for both of you Only you and she can decide when to go southward Inhale her, and rub your lips all around her Make your pace the same as her pace Kiss her more around her lips, tasting her Listen to her responses; let them be your guide Experiment, and enjoy this intimate experience with your lover Pause and move back up, kissing her, and tell her how much her scent arouses you It’s also helpful to slip a pillow under her Initially she may be shy Once you begin with her there, you must finish The giving and receiving of this pleasure draws both closer After her last orgasm, or when she asks you, leave her clitoris, as it will be very sensitive Kiss her, touch her, taste her skin If she says just do what you did, then you know you are on the right road to pleasing her
” At the right time, slip your middle finger into her, moving both fingers in opposite motion to each other It really helps!)
Slowly move back down her, until you are so close The assumption of nakedness and being in bed are used in the following Lick and kiss her downward toward her anus Always respond to her wants, but remember, you are in control Touch her breasts, love her nipples; respond to her This is her center, where most of her pleasure derives She may move about, even buck a bit, perhaps even pull you closer, or guide you with her hands Do not touch her there, but kiss the insides of her thighs, licking them, first one, then the other Careful with the use of teeth The closer you get, the more her scent will reach you Make a “come hither” motion with your finger, and you will be stimulating her “g spot No two women are the same, but she’ll orgasm, perhaps several times Go there if you wish
When you and she are ready, move upward, and quickly lick her clitoris Let her come down into your arms
(Ladies, I’m not going to get into a discussion about shaved or unshaven, but I highly recommend appropriate trimming and brushing in this area
Once you’ve achieved intimacy with your lover, ask her what she desires Make sure you are comfortable, neck relaxed arms around her, holding her as you kiss and love her Get between her legs and gently spread them Always be gentle, as she is tender around her lips Now, take all of her around her clitoris and pull her into your mouth gently, nibbling on her and sucking her at the same time Use your lips, teeth, and tongue to ravish her there
How soon should you approach her there? There is no rule Pause and lick and suck her lips again, then return You might pause, and tease her a bit, but always finish! Lick and kiss her slowly, then faster Personally, I think that there should be wetness before you go there You might have to pull her hood back a bit She wants to hear how you are going to please her, so oblige her
Performing cunnilingus upon your lover is one of the most intimate acts between two people Kiss your way back up to her, and hold her, gently kissing her Talk to her; tell her explicitly what you are going to do |
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